The substance of love

To the natural man or woman
There is substance in love.
That substance is the basis for love.
This substance of love is what you get
or expect to get from the relationship
When you discover that substance, you get attracted to it.
And they say you are in love!

It may be difficult to identify this substance until it is gone
This may explain why people recognise true love after they have lost it.
It is this substance that holds and sustains the relationship
And make it look real through thick and thin.

When it is no longer there,
You say you are no longer in love,
and you break up the relationship
implying that the substance oils the relationship.



To the supernatural man or woman
Love is a spiritual thing.
There is no basis, only substance.
That substance reflects in the things love give.
This explains why love is eternal
And will always be.




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when it feels like it is not working

We all hit this spot once in a while in every marriage or relationship.At that stage in a marriage or a relationship when it seems not to be working.When all hope seems gone, all attempts to make it work seems to hit the brickwall.When one party seems not to be interested in what's going on.When the relationship seems to be on the verge of packing up.Is this the time to quit?Is this not the time to review the relationship and evaluate what is and what is not?Is this not the time to look at the relationship for what it really is ?Is this not the time to do a self evaluation and identify one's roles, strength and weaknesses or failingsin the relationship?Some will say, it is the time to look up to God, the home front and the family to intervene.Relationships are golden and should be treated as such. There is more to gain from a good relationship than to loose.It makes better sense to review the questions above before taking a hasty decision. All may no really be as it seems. Some people in relationships might be deceived by external or extraneous factors, some by forces wanting to destroy them or the relationship, by some grief, greed, or unidentified causes.Whatever it is, always remember that the grass may not necessarily be greener out there. Every relationship has its ups and down. What appears grievous today may seem like child's play tomorrow, and you may begin to wonder why it was such a big deal to you.






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